Once you’ve decided who you want to spend the rest of your life with, one question remains. How will you make this moment special?
Here are five tips to help you plan the perfect wedding proposal.
Make Sure You’re On The Same Page
First and foremost, you must ensure you’re on the same page with your partner about plans. Having a conversation about marriage beforehand will save you a lot of trouble in the future.
Find out what their views are on marriage. Do they believe in the constitution of marriage? Is this something they want right now, or are they hoping to wait until they’ve accomplished more in their career?
Knowing what you want is only part of the picture. You need to have a clear idea of what they want, too. Perhaps they want you to get permission from their parents before proposing.
Find The Perfect Engagement Ring
Once you both want the same thing in life, it’s time to find a ring. There are variations in styles, cuts, carat sizes, and band selections. But buying the perfect ring involves more than just going to a store and picking it up.
Think about your partner’s style. Are they more into simple? Or do they want something grand like a 4-carat engagement ring? If you’re unsure and don’t want to spoil the surprise by asking, talk to some of their close friends or family members. They’ll likely have an idea of what styles they might like.
Plus, you need to know what size ring to get, which they may also know.
Write Out What You Want To Say
Many people get tripped up when put on the spot, especially for such a big moment. You might have it all planned out in your head, but when it comes, you might get nervous and forget. It’s worth writing down what you want to say.
There certainly is no shame in reading from the page you wrote. If anything, it’ll show your partner that you’ve invested time and consideration in this special moment.
Plan How You Want To Propose
Now comes the fun part. Planning out the perfect proposal can be as simple or intricate as you want. The first thing is to decide the level of intimacy you desire. Do you want this moment to be with the two of you? Or would you rather do it in a public setting where friends and family can be around? It will help shape where you might want to propose.
From there, you can decide on special elements such as candles around the house or setting up a picturesque setting on the beach.
Take Pictures Or Videos Of The Proposal
Over the last few years, a popular trend has been capturing the moment with photos or video. It’s an excellent idea so you can always reflect on this moment just as you would on your wedding day. Plus, it’s always fun to share the news on social media with the people you love.
Some people go as far as hiring a photographer to hide and take photos of this special moment. But it can also be as simple as setting up your camera to capture it on your phone.
Conclusion:
The most important part of any wedding proposal is ensuring you’re both on the same page. It means what you both want for your future together and how you plan to get engaged.
A large gathering of people in a public setting might not be what your partner would like. Or an oval-shaped engagement ring might not fit their style. The more you know about expectations for this type of commitment from your partner, the better off you’ll be when the time comes to propose.
